4 Behaviors You Shouldn’t Tolerate in Your Child
Raising a child isn’t easy, and many parents don’t know how to redirect behavior.
01 February 2020
Sergio Gallego Uvero
Since they are very low, Children are constantly learning And one of the most headache-inducing issues for parents in general is behavioral or behavioral issues. Children need to learn which behaviors are appropriate and which cannot be tolerated or allowed under any circumstances.
The problem with many parents is that they are too permissive in the face of such behavior. And the child believes that he has full freedom to do what he wants. Parents must be firm and unflinching at all times and certain behaviors are unacceptable and carry severe consequences. Next we will talk to you about those behaviors or behaviors that parents cannot tolerate or allow.
Taking what is not yours
A child cannot even create an object or thing that does not belong to him. Even if he likes it a lot, he can’t own it, and you’ll have to watch him over and over again until he realizes that. To do this, you need to teach him consistent values such as respect or honesty. If you see something that doesn’t belong to your child, kindly ask them to return it and always make them understand that this is the right thing to do.
Make fun of others
You need to teach your child that it is not okay to criticize or make fun of others because they are different. From a young age we need to see him that all people are equal regardless of gender or skin color. In this case, the father must instill consistent values. Such as empathy, tolerance or respect.
Harass other children
It is common for children to fight over toys or to watch when they are done playing. Sometimes they get into fights for no apparent reason. With this in mind, the task of parents is very important as they must at all times prevent them from constantly disturbing other children. A good way is to demand that your child go to the other child and apologize for the way he or she behaved. If you continue to notice that your child does not change and constantly disturbs other children, do not hesitate to go to a professional who can help you with this aggressive behavior.
Anger when angry or angry
It is never acceptable to hit or break something in the hand when a child is angry. These are unacceptable behaviors that should be completely nipped in the bud.. It is advisable to wait until the child calms down and talk to him to give him a series of instructions to help him control himself the next time the behavior occurs. You can tell him to count to ten before doing something he might regret later. This type of behavior is unfortunately very common today and cannot be tolerated under any circumstances.
Educating a child is not easy or simple. And many parents don’t know how to redirect their children’s different behaviors. They need to see at all times that there are certain behaviors that will not be tolerated and that there must be consequences.
At any time, if you notice that the actions or consequences are not changing your child, realize what is wrong and what is right. It is better to go to an expert in this matter To help divert the situation as quickly and as quickly as possible.
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